>>433266
I have a now teen daughter so I can give some perspective on this. If you donโt think your love for your child and fundamental need to protect them from harm - feelings that are impossible to replicate ahead of time - will be strong enough to overcome your basest urges, then absolutely donโt do it. Like Tick said
>>433274 there are many reasons to be apprehensive about having a kid but if that is first on the list it could be a problem.
But the fact that youโre having this dilemma now may be good because you know how it could potentially lead to the worst possible outcome and that scares you. The real monsters are the ones who never have that dilemma and give in too easily when faced with the most selfish and damaging choices. If you are thinking โI know the potential for a terrible thing exists but thatโs never going to be meโ then there is hope. I donโt think being how we are automatically precludes you from being a good and responsible parent.
The two worlds of having a daughter and being attracted to girls has always been completely separate for me. I acknowledge that itโs hypocritical for me to post here while also having irl experience with how unwanted adult male attention (catcalls on the street) can make a girl feel but thatโs my issue to deal with internally.